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Burnout - far more than just stress - its your mind and body setting the boundaries that you haven't!
Burnout - far more than just stress - its your mind and body setting the boundaries that you haven't!

Carla
Dec 29, 202522 min read


What nobody tells you about going no-contact with toxic family, and why it can still be the right choice
Going no contact with family is hard, made harder by many people not understanding that it is rarely impulsive, it come after years of trying to belong

Carla
Dec 23, 20258 min read


Surviving And Even Thriving During Christmas
Christmas is sold to us as the season of joy, magic and togetherness. A cosy blur of fairy lights, familiar songs, matching pyjamas and perfectly crisp roast potatoes. The message is that, for a few days of the year, everyone should feel warm, grateful and full of uncomplicated happiness.
In my therapy room, that is not usually how people describe it.

Carla
Dec 1, 202530 min read


Managing Adult ADHD: Tips for Daily Success
Living with adult ADHD can be challenging, but with the right strategies, it is possible to thrive in everyday life. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) affects many adults, impacting focus, organisation, and time management. However, understanding how to manage symptoms effectively can lead to improved productivity and well-being. This article explores practical tips and techniques to help you navigate daily tasks and responsibilities with confidence. Remember th

Carla
Nov 23, 20254 min read


Hormones and Psychology: The Intricate Dance of The Female Body and Mind over Lifespan and Menopause
Female hormones and human functioning - how they work and what happens when they dont

Carla
Nov 9, 202525 min read


How to Identify & Work With Trauma
Trauma - how to know if you are struggling with the impact of trauma and what you can do about it

Carla
Oct 27, 20255 min read


Understanding the Effects of Adverse Childhood Experiences
Adverse childhood events can be dramatic or subtle. From abuse and neglect to a simple mismatch between a child's needs and what they get. Read a quick blog on ACEs

Carla
Oct 20, 20255 min read


Synaptic Pruning: How Your Brain Tidies Up (And How To Keep What Matters)
Synaptic Pruning, brains housekeeping. Do you know why we get 'baby brain' and cognitive fog later in life? Take a read about a fascinating brain process

Carla
Oct 12, 202516 min read


Unlocking the Benefits of Self-Awareness
Quick read on self awareness

Carla
Sep 24, 20254 min read


Overcoming Common Relationship Challenges
Common relationship issues and some practical solutions

Carla
Sep 22, 20253 min read


Emotions and Emotional Dysregulation: Relearning Your Nervous System’s Ancient Language.
Emotions and emotional regulation - relearning evolutionary body signals and learning to regulate

Carla
Sep 17, 202514 min read


Sadness and Depression: Opening the Curtains on the darkness
Depression - what do we mean when we say depressed, is it just sadness or do we not know the difference anymore

Carla
Aug 3, 202521 min read


The Importance of Sleep: Debunking Myths and Embracing Good Sleep Hygiene
Sleep, the one thing we need to do and despite it being essential to our physical and mental well-being so many people fail to get enough

Carla
Jun 29, 20257 min read


Understanding OCD: Beyond Hand-Washing
obsessive compulsive disorder - OCD - what is it and how is it treated and can we be 'a little bit OCD'?

Carla
Jun 8, 202521 min read


Screen Time: Are We All Just Scrolling Through Life?
Screen time - is all screen time equal? the good, the bad, the ugly and how to change your relationship with screens and people around you

Carla
May 18, 202524 min read


Trauma: When the Past Won’t Stay in the Past
Trauma - Big T, Little T, what happens in the mind, body and nervous system when we feel an experience is a threat that we have no control over

Carla
May 11, 202526 min read


Let's (Not) Talk Mental Health: Have We Talked Too Much?
Let's Talk Mental Health: Or Have We Talked Too Much? sadness is now depression and worry and stress are now anxiety - are we pathologising being human

Carla
May 4, 202520 min read


Managing Online Conflict: A Psychological Perspective
Online conflict - why do we row online, like we wouldn't in real life. How to understand it and strategies to manage it to stay psychologically well.

Carla
Apr 20, 202517 min read


Gaslighting: When Your Reality Isn’t Yours Anymore
Gaslighting - a word we now hear everywhere but what is it, what harm can it do, and what can we do about it. Why social media is great for spreading the word, but is the message being diluted

Carla
Apr 13, 202518 min read


Unpacking the Impact of Stress: Beyond the Busy-ness of Life
Stress, what it is, what it isnt. What is the difference between stress, anxiety and burnout, how do you notice it and how do you manage it

Carla
Apr 6, 202523 min read
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